Stress and burnout

Stressed out? Let’s lighten the load.

A little stress can help you rise to a challenge. Too much, for too long, wears you down. Here’s how to reset in a few minutes, handle exam and work pressure, and catch burnout before it catches you.

Updated · 7 min read · By the AURA team

A two-minute reset

  1. Stop and breathe. Three slow breaths, each out-breath longer than the in-breath.
  2. Drop your shoulders and unclench your jaw. Stress hides in both.
  3. Name the one thing that matters most right now. Only that.
  4. Take the smallest next step on it, then the next.

For a longer reset, step outside for a 10-minute walk. Daylight and movement are two of the fastest ways to lower stress.

Exam stress

Work stress

Signs of burnout

Burnout builds slowly after long periods of stress. Watch for:

Recovering from burnout

Recovery takes time, and it starts with doing less, not more. Rest without guilt. Bring back small things that give you energy. Set firmer limits on work hours. Talk to someone you trust, and if you can, to your manager or teacher about what has to change. A daily mood check-in can show you what drains you and what helps.

Talk it out

Stress feels lighter when it’s shared. On AURA you can vent after a hard day and hear from people juggling the same pressures, whether that’s exams, work, money or family. If stress is affecting your sleep, appetite or mood for weeks, please also see a doctor or counsellor.

Questions

What is the fastest way to relieve stress?

Slow your breathing with a longer out-breath for a minute or two, relax your shoulders and jaw, and if you can, take a short walk outside. Then pick the single most important task and take one small step on it.

How do I know if it is stress or burnout?

Stress usually feels like too much: too many demands, too much urgency. Burnout feels like too little: exhausted, empty and detached, even after rest. If you’ve felt like that for weeks, it is worth making changes and talking to someone.

How can I cope with exam pressure from my family?

Tell them how you are studying and what would help, such as quiet time or fewer questions about marks. Many families push because they care and feel anxious themselves. If the pressure feels too heavy, talking to a teacher, counsellor or peers who understand can help.